Ever since our sons were born on February 4th, people have asked us how it feels to be a mom/dad. To be completely honest, we don't always feel like a mom and a dad! Yes, I gave birth to them, the boys look just like Andy, and they raise their eyebrows to show they recognize our voices, but sometimes it feels like the nurses and doctors are more like "parents" than we are.
Last night we came one step closer to feeling like real parents... we got to hold Tyler outside of his isolette! Because his breathing is stable and his oxygen level is pretty low, our nurse said she didn't see why we couldn't start holding him. So we scrubbed our hands extra well, put on a gown, and held our son for the first time. Andy described it very accurately as "surreal." It was amazing and heartwarming and a little strange (afterall, we've just been staring at him for 3 weeks) and something we'll always remember. Tyler made it about 15 minutes until he got too comfortable and forgot to breathe... so back to his isolette he went. The nurse said he did well for his first time and we should be able to hold him for 20 minutes every day now. Talk about a reason to get up in the morning.
Max is still receiving too much breathing support to be held, but we hope his day will come soon. Not only did the poor guy have to stay in his isolette, but he now has an IV in his head... and Karen wasn't there to make him a crown! His heart murmur has also returned, so he is back on the medication to close his PDA.
Sometimes it's one step forward, two steps back. But holding Tyler certainly felt like a pretty big step in the right direction!
He was still hooked up to all of his machines while we held him
Can't forget Max with his unicorn IV!
11 comments:
WOW - what an exciting moment! You two are absolutely glowing in these pictures, and looking like the wonderful parents that you are. Thank you SO much for keeping us all up to date on this blog. Much love and many prayers.
~ Lynn and Phil
What a wonderful day! Thank you to Max and Tyler for reminding us how miraculous and special life is. And thanks to their mom and dad for being an inspiration to all who visit this blog. We think of you all everyday! Love, Missy
Congratulations! I'm so happy that you two got to hold Tyler. You'll be holding Max soon!
You are GLOWING, Bridge....what an amazing moment for you both!
Bridge those pictures are precious. You, Andy and the babies make my heart melt...I know that moment is something you will never forget....love ya!
WOW - that's the BEST feeling, isn't it? I remember holding Caden for the first time the day after I had him. It's the best feeling in the world!! I understand how you feel about the nurses and doctors being 'parents' to them. I will tell you this...ENJOY IT!!! Once the boys become stronger and continue to grow....it will get a little easier. But once they come home, girl, it's a whole different ball game. But I do know how you feel...once you start holding them, they KNOW it's mommy and daddy!! THAT'S the best feeling - EVER, even now!! You are GREAT parents already!! :0)
Great big step Bridge and Andy,Max will be anxious to held by Mom and Dad and will perk up soon. Love you all and still pulling for all four.Can't wait to make small golf clubs.
Love
Mac and Nuala
EXCITING! I know that your love and support will continue to make the boys stronger and stronger. :)
WOW!!! I love the picture of Tyler with his little hat and sleepy eyes. He is much more comfortable now that he can step out of his isolette! - Christie
Crying at my desk at work again! You both looked so natural and happy holding Tyler...so exciting!
Can't wait for Max's turn!
Aunt Kelly here...
This blogging thing is new to me.. just realized that i could post comments. who knew! Bridget and Andy, this site is the best! Thank you for sharing your miracles with all of us. Max and Tyler are so strong and beautiful. They are so lucky to have such wonderful parents. Love you 2x2.
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